Thursday, October 23, 2008

Moving on

Well I ended up surviving my birthday yesterday. Cody and Carson are still home sick, and I'm still not getting any sleep. That about sums it up.

As far as the previous post, well I've decided that I'm done trying. I reflect back on church last Sunday and basically the moral of the lecture was don't let yourself get so upset over other's actions or words. I cannot change other people nor will I try. So I'm going to move on. If Charlie wants to be a part of that, great. If not, well, then it's his loss. Charlie's daughter can decide in her own time if she wants to be a part of Carson's life but if she doesn't, then that will be fine. He doesn't know her now and so he doesn't realize he is missing a beautiful little girl in his life.

To all of my friends, I'm thankful for each and everyone of you. I had some phone calls, some private e-mails, and some comments on my blog. For those of you who trully know me, you never assumed that I was trying to insult her. You knew that my intentions were out of love and getting a relationship resolved. Most of you had faith in my loyalily to family. That was the best birthday present I could have asked for. I was trying to reach out for advice. Just so you know, most of you said the best thing to do is to sit back and let it ride out. If she wants to be in his life, she will. Best advice. This is why I blog. I love to brag on my three boys but just like every other household, there are problems. So sometimes I will seek out and ask for advice. If you scroll through my blog, you would see that I don't vent very often. But I do have a stressful life like most and I'm just trying to balance everything out. I consider myself a successful business owner, proud mother of three kids, two of which do well in school, I have a lot of great friends, and I'm trying to improve myself with going back to school. So for everyone who has stood beside me, from the bottom of my heart, thanks!!! Your why I love blogging and sharing and jumping on your sites as well!

7 comments:

Spaghetti said...

I hope the boys feel better soon. I have a sicky right now, how annoying. I love my kids to death but when they are sick I am not very sympathetic. This is not one of my finer moments. Thanks for the support from you. Trust me when I say I appreciate the listening ear and the gentle reminders. Everyone needs that someone who can listen and make a comment without the other person losing control. Thanks!

Tracey said...

Hang in there... God has a plan it will all work out in the end. I didn't read your post, but I am sure there was nothing meant to be mean... I will say a little prayer for you. I hope you babies get better soon. I have sick one too!

lisaschaos said...

You have to be over stressed! I hope it all calms down soon. :)

Kaden and Angel Ava's mommy said...

I hope the boys start feeling better soon. Is this the same thing Carson had at the beginning of the week?

About the other thing...I am sure things will work themselves out, for the better. Unfortunately, things take time. Hang in there.

Kaden and Angel Ava's mommy said...

By the way...Happy Birthday, I don't think I posted that last night.

Pam said...

Oh I hope the boys are better soon. I got hit with a jerk off post on my blog as well. I just answered to it in the comment section. Whatever I don't care what anyone thinks. All I know is that I have wonderful friends through this bloggy world, and the rest can go to Hell for all I care.

DON'T YOU GIVE UP HOPE YOUNG LADY....(ahem, in my best motherly voice.) You have three beautiful sons who mean the world to you, and dang it, who would I talk to when we are in the hospital if it wasn't you?

Glad today was a better day. Rhett and I started in with fevers tonight. Just what we need around here. Ah well, tis our life.

((HUGS)) my sweet friend.

Rachel said...

You're a good person. That's all you need to know. Your kids are well taken care of and your a great Mama!

Sorry the boys are sick, Melana has a cold now and my throat is scratchy. I hope it passes soon.

Thanks for the chat, can't wait for our play date! Melana could use one, and it will be her first.

Keep in Touch...and keep your chin up!

Rachel